Your Thread – July 2

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444 thoughts on “Your Thread – July 2

  1. Well, I’ll say good morning to you all. I am probably asleep as you read this because I couldn’t sleep tonight. That means I will get another late start on the day and the drama.
    My thought for the day…. I think Joe Hosey may be connected to the ashley thing. It was a journalist who got info from Jordon VanDerSloot (sp?), using a third party. Jordon gave up some info, and we all lapped it up like cats to milk.
    Stacy’s case has been quiet and I like many others wonder from week to week if it will ever end, will there be an arrest? Well Joe decided to write the book(IMO he jumped the gun), I am sure he wanted to publish it before all of the interest and drama died down but lately there isn’t as much attention as there was before and the case was moving along so quietly, he needed a plan, something to boost sales, something he could control the timing of….it is the perfect time to help promote a book with no real ending. Ashley, the scorned woman, letting out bits of info each day, just enough to keep the public interested. Yes, I believe Hosey is behind ashley, hail he could be ashley for all we know. I wouldn’t feel this way if it weren’t for the timing and the fact that ashley has a picture of Joe’s book on her blog, it seems a little too convenient. I may have to eat my words on this one…I’ll live. Have a good morning all!

  2. O/T, hab, we want you back.

    Good morning ladies. Seems some have gotten even meaner of late, throwing personal info into the mix now. Happens in every long case.

    This is by far the weirdest case I have ever followed though.

    I think Ashley is a poster we “know” (but not bash). Not sure if I think it’s Hosey, MBS…. that is interesting though the book cover as her front page…

    Bottom line. Drew is a huge idiot.
    He can only blame himself for the deep shit he’s walking in.

  3. Morning All –

    Amanda I’m with you, I think we all know “Ashley.” But only time will tell.

    Chicago Police lost one of their own last night. My prayers and thoughts to Officer Francis’s family, friends, and fellow officers.

  4. I have my suspicions who I *think* it might be. It’s just my personal feeling.

    I also *think* she may not be a she.

    I was just agreeing with Amanda in her statement that she think’s it might be someone we all know.

  5. Oh. Well, I don’t have a clue, and, honestly, couldn’t even imagine who it might be, if it’s someone who even posts here. I don’t even want to read through the comments anymore because they’ve turned vicious and off-color. Besides, I hate when it turns personal and they zero in on one person.

    Oh, well, on to something else.

  6. Sorry, trying to get organized for the Fireworks tomorrow night. Nothing like waiting until that last moment…..Ughhhhhh.

  7. Rescue, lol, it’s like reading through posts here when Gatehouse is away!

    I noticed that someone copies pretty much anything we say about Ashley over there but they are no longer making the comments look like their own … their including our names.

    I’m sure every blog has their ideas on who Ashley is … my suspiscion is that Ashley is/was not active on any blog but that friends of hers were …

    Personally, that doesn’t matter to me. It’s Drew on the other end and the only interest I have in what Ashley said during their chats is how Drew chose to respond.

    Of course, she’s a liar too … telling him nobody would ever know about their conversations … and then posting them on a blog for all to see.

    But does the end justify the means? Only time will tell … time for me to go see what’s new at Ashley’s site.

    Be back in a few …

  8. See!
    Everyone makes mistakes “their including our names” … well, there goes my membership in the Spelling and Grammar Police Protection Association.

    😀

  9. I just read over there for a minute or two, and its pretty disgusting. She isn’t answering the questions about Drew that people are asking. She is more into the name calling and getting all caught up in her new found celebrity.

    I couldn’t read through them all, but someone mentioned she is taking her stuff to the ISP I believe it said this morning. Wouldn’t it have been a bit more wise to have done that beforehand? Don’t you think they will want her hard drive to have a forensic computer person go through it?

  10. Ashley said…
    I am single , and no one knew I was talking to Drew ..

    July 1, 2008 11:47 PM
    _______________
    So she blows my theory out of the water … if you can believe what she says NOW.

    Facs, saw your post about how someone had edited your post from here … I’l have to go back and see what they did to the one of mine (posted twice).

    Let, I read that she was going to LE too. Hopefully they can deal with what she has, but yes it would have been wiser to go to them first.

    IMO

  11. I find it difficult to believe that someone associated with LE isn’t scouring the net for posts regarding the case on all blogs/forums, etc.

  12. LOL, I don’t think it matters when she gives her stuff to LE. Either it’s worthy or it’s worthless. Either he admitted to something or he didn’t. It’s all relative.

    I would think, if any of this stuff is useful or will be useful by LE, about all she can do is say yes, this is on my hard drive, in my folders, etc. If he said it, he said it. If it can be verified, it will be. If she can say it’s her conversations, then it is.

    What else is there to pick apart, say she should do or should have done?

  13. The posts at Ashley’s blog site are far too colorful for my taste. I’m not going back. People can say anything, ya know? From the start, and I by far don’t read there every day, something has not been on the level about that blog.

  14. grandma210 – yeah, I totally agree with your observation about the comments. Very hard to take, since they’re vulgar, they’re name calling, they’re exposing people by making pics available, and they’re just plain stupid.

    I’m more interested in knowing what Brodsky’s next plan of action is with the Phelps matter, and vice versa, since he does make that so interesting. Especially, since he’s a defense attorney who, IMHO, should not be blogging his defenses on a board. But, it does make for good reading and blogging!

  15. Rescue, I’m sorry, I’m get confused.

    You don’t like the talk about Ashley site, and feel we are picking it apart, correct?

    But isn’t that we are all doing with this entire case?

    It has been torn apart time and again, and we still know nothing more than we did yesterday.

    Some people have different interests in this case. Some like the forsenics behind it, some like the timeline, some like the theory Stacy ran away, some like the drama of it, some like nothing more than to pick Drew and JB apart.

    It’s doesn’t mean we all dont want justice, and the truth to be told.

    Ashley is just one little bit to this puzzle. She has brought all this on herself, or himself. And from reading her posts, she is sucking it up.

  16. Ms. Noway – I hope you will come here and post Brodsky’s comments when he gets his anticipated response from the Connecticut Attorney General’s Office regarding the stuff he forwarded to them on Phelps. I more relatively sure that if Brodsky thinks he scored, he’ll be the first to post it on HIS blog!

  17. LLTBF – Oh, let me clarify. I don’t like reading it, that’s all. I just stated my reasons for that. Everyone has an absolute right to read and comment and pick apart.

    Just me – I don’t like the tone over there.

  18. I’m with you the tone over there has gotten way off track. It’s nothing more than a personal attack forum.

    Sorry If I misunderstood your post.

    😉

  19. lol
    Rescue, I figured you’d be asking about Joel’s posts. Nothing new there but I’ll check back.

    I thought Ashley’s posts of the conversations were bad enough … but the comments! Whew!

    May have to rely on someone else to read those and post relevant info. Of course, if LE visits with her and determines that she *does* have stuff that is interesting to them … that may be the end of Ashley’s blog.

    I suppose a woman scorned would “have mental problems” and that is why Joel is going with that theory on Ashley?

    Whereas “a woman out for justice” … harder to find something wrong with that?

    What think you?

  20. I think its a very fine line. If in fact she has anything of value to the case, all this other nonsense will hurt the creditable stuff.

    As I said yesterday, to me she/he seems very unstable. jmo

  21. Instigation of personal attacks on posters is not cool. One thing to discuss parties and motives involved in a crime, even having extreme opinions, different ballgame attacking people on a board, trying to dig up personal information on people because you don’t care for an opinion.

  22. Opps, and I meant to add, if she was truly out for Justice, I believe she would have contacted the authorities right away and let them know she was conversing with him, and ask for help.

  23. Thanks, Noway.

    I check “Ashley’s Place,”as I am sure everyone else does periodically to see what her new pm posts and/or emails are. Again, like that wreck you shouldn’t look at but do anyway.

    I just am pretty much skipping over the posts now. Besides, they’re getting lengthy and it’s just repetitious after a while.

    LOL, I was thinking of starting to check the Will County Courthouse website to see if there’s any motions that have been filed, such as a Motion to Withdraw as Attorney of Record. See, I’m thinking that’s what Brodsky’s co-attorneys and partner should be filing real soon.

  24. She says that the stuff she hasn’t posted is “even better” … which I guess would translate into “even worse for Drew” …

    And LE has what she’s posted so far. I don’t know why she didn’t just go to LE first … and that is what is odd.

    SOMEONE set Drew up and maybe her too? Sent her a PM from Drew that wasn’t from Drew (according to him).

    It’s mindboggling to me at this point.

    I think Joel is busy checking that the duct tape on Drew’s mouth , hands and feet is still secure.

    He’s not taking any chances.

    But I suppose Glenn should be using the duct tape on Joel too.

    😉

  25. LLTBF – You know, I’m thinking about your comment,

    “I think its a very fine line. If in fact she has anything of value to the case, all this other nonsense will hurt the creditable stuff.

    As I said yesterday, to me she/he seems very unstable. jmo”

    Now, I’m not trying to be a smart ass here, but I can very easily reason in my mind that Brodsky is bordering on mental himself. He blogs, he answers people’s posts, he calls a crime writer a “moron” over legal disputes he has with him and refers to him as a “pos.”

    Tell me that isn’t very close to what Ashley is doing? It cuts both ways. Mind you, I am not defending Ashley’s actions, she on her own and can do what she wants. I’m just making a comparison. Plus, add Drew to the mix, she he provides all of the disgusting material that one needs to blog about.

  26. If she did not know he was Drew, I wonder when he told her.

    Why would you save your chats with some person you might not every hear from again … once she found out who he was, did she print everything she had from him (just in case)?

    I think I’m looking for logic in a situation where there just isn’t any.

    🙂

  27. Rescue, I completely agree with you 100%. There are very few people in all this mess that seem stable to me, and I mean that with all my heart.

    We could go down the list, but that would be too lenghty….lol.

  28. noway – I’m an extreme novice when it comes to chat stuff. In fact, I have never been in any kind of a chat room, if that’s what you call them.

    I have AIM, and I have bantered back and forth, of course, with people I know, but that’s as far as it goes. I wonder it chats are automatically saved, as I think AIM chats are.

    Oh, heck, I don’t know what I’m even talking about.

  29. lol
    I participated in my first live chat last night … and never thought about trying to save the posts.

    😀 I had enough trouble chatting … kept looking for a post button instead of just hitting Enter.

    But I admit that when a post on a blog raised the hair on my neck, I saved it … maybe not permanently but initially … and can’t explain the “why” of that …

  30. Speaking of attorney’s. Did anyone follow the Spector Trial?

    The reason I ask is I’m trying to remember somethings about that case, that in regards to attorneys might be happening here.

    He at one point had an attorney, I want to say her name was Sara Kaplan. For some reason she left the case. During the trial she was called to testify, and refused to do so, which in return started all sorts of legal wrangling.

    Does anyone remember what it was she testified too?

  31. I was thinking (scary) about this Ashley stuff. While there are two sides going on here with the comment sections, those who encourage her and those who rip her apart, it’s strictly an Internet thing right now. Very hot issue, but only to those who follow along closely.

    If and when this does become public, and I am sure it will, think about it. Who’s going to look worse – Drew Peterson for blogging with an unknown female, trying to set up a rendezvous (don’t worry, I looked up to check the spelling of that big word first), or Ashley, for sucking him in and spitting him out?

    I guess it depends on who throws out the first shot. But, after Selig tried to reinvent Drew, this isn’t looking too good, at least IMO. He’s going to go back from sinister and evil, to Mr. Mom, funny and normal, to Mr. I Like Hotties and Look for Them on the Internet. See, they just happened to overlook him sitting at his computer on Selig’s tape, chatting provocatively with an Internet Hottie.

    Maybe I’m stretching here, but he looks like the putz more than she does.

    Now, someone needs to print a mainstream article about Joel, a follow-up of sorts, on the every day goings on in the life of he and his client. Ask him why he needs to blog and post comments like you “moron” and “pos?”

    That’s what I’m talking about!!!!

  32. lol … Imagine:

    Film of Drew saying he loved Stacy and superimposed over that … Ashley’s post.

    Film of Drew saying he hardly goes out … maybe once a week … and shots of him and Kim M., with Steve C., etc.

    Film of Drew saying all he does is care for the kids 24/7 … and superimposed over that more of Ashley’s posts. Okay, the webcam photo would show he is not “out” but don’t think it would matter since the chats are more interesting.

    Glenn will be busy … in fact, I’m sure that is what he is doing now … how can we spin this … how … how … how?

    And of course, Glenn has Joel’s spat with Matt to deal with too.

    😀

  33. See Rescue, that is where we disagree. I think she is coming off looking horrible.

    As I said yesterday, if he really believe’s Stacy ran off, then there is nothing wrong with him communicating with someone online.

    Now as for her, she broke a promise, that’s not cool, I don’t care who anyone is, you don’t do that.

    If she would have just made her posts, and left it at that, that would be one thing, but she is on the comment section speaking like a true low life, in my opinion.

    JB, Drew and Selig are coming off just as badly. I’ve never seen, nor heard of an attorney going on message boards etc. I’m sure they read them, to see what the general public is saying about their client, but then never post.

    And I think it’s disgusting that she/he is taking this as a funny thing. There is nothing funny about this case, either side you take.

  34. I agree with the comment that he looks more like a putz than her … but to follow their method of attack, it is easier to make someone think that a scorned woman has mental problems than a woman who just happened to chat with Drew Peterson … so I am interested in when he told her who he was … how long into their chats (online rendevouzs … ha ha … spelling).

  35. This comment of all of them is disturbing to me.

    Ashley said…
    Kimmer is non important seriously , fighting with her over the net is like running in the special olympics – even if you win your still retarded ..

    July 1, 2008 9:53 PM

  36. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:34 am

    If she would have just made her posts, and left it at that, that would be one thing, but she is on the comment section speaking like a true low life, in my opinion.

    ________________
    Yes, why get involved in the personal attacks between people?

    Why not stay focused on the topic … that’s what is odd. Nobody *really* wants to chat with Ashley about anything other than Drew and what Drew said and did. IMO

  37. noway said …. it is easier to make someone think that a scorned woman has mental problems…

    Yes, agreed. LLTBF – agreed, there’s nothing funny about any of this.

    However, it is what it is. He said it, it’s there in writing, and a jury can look at it and make their own conclusions. Think about it. Would you question how, when, where and why it was done? If that gets you to the place where you need to be, then that is the right place for you.

    If you, like me, see it as a pattern that fits the rest of the evidence (not what we’ve seen in the newspapers, etc., but what will be presented about him at a trial), his way of life, his treatment of his wives, his dalliances, and it helps to cement and reinforce your lack of faith in his defense, then you’re at the place you need to be.

  38. If Ashley’s snippets get any “better” than they were yesterday, she/he is going to need to charge membership fees and check IDs.

  39. Rescue, I agree.

    I know it’s tricky to bring in prior bad acts. But it will show a pattern.

    From what she has shown us, there is nothing at all that would make it into a courtroom, nothing.

  40. That’s true … he said what he said … but Joel’s job is to attack anyone who speaks against Drew. I just wonder how “easy” that job is going to be with Ashley.

  41. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:39 am

    **************

    LTTBF – I don’t even want to dignify that comment of Ashley’s by copying and pasting it, so we’ll leave it at that.

    Again, I think the comments are rude and vulgar, and everything about them has turned ugly.

    Brodsky – are you lookin’ at this? Don’t call anyone that you have a legal difference with a “moron” and a “pos.” See how bad it looks when you engaged in personal attacks. Kind of takes the focus off of what you’re really trying to say and forcing us to look at the crud instead!

  42. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:39 am

    This comment of all of them is disturbing to me.

    Ashley said…
    Kimmer is non important seriously , fighting with her over the net is like running in the special olympics – even if you win your still retarded ..

    July 1, 2008 9:53 PM
    _____________________

    There is her lack of character, lttbf.

    That is my own personal hot button word/phrase.

    I also agree that she could have had more credibility just posting the chats and emails, etc. The comments and replies do show she is trash.

    Somebody will pay her soon. NE or some other media whore outlet.

  43. But even the NE would need a bit more than she has put out so far.

    I can’t believe I just typed that the NE has some standards….lol.

  44. Again, I feel the need to send some advil to the DA’s office and the ISP, they have to be getting terrible headaches from all the banging of their heads they have to be doing everyday.

  45. I also wondered last night, God knows why, but the task force they had set up for Stacy, I know some have gone back to their regular posts, and are in a sit and wait mode.

    Now with the supposed serial killer, I’m sure a good number of them have been reassigned to that case.

  46. Oh the joys of working for a DA’s office. They can only go off what they have to work with, and sadly this case is going to be one that is going to take a lot of rehab on redirect testimony….lol.

  47. Speaking of attorney’s. Did anyone follow the Spector Trial?

    The reason I ask is I’m trying to remember somethings about that case, that in regards to attorneys might be happening here.

    He at one point had an attorney, I want to say her name was Sara Kaplan. For some reason she left the case. During the trial she was called to testify, and refused to do so, which in return started all sorts of legal wrangling.

    Does anyone remember what it was she testified too?
    _____________

    Isn’t she the one who testified that she saw Lee put a piece of evidence (fingernail?) in his pocket?

  48. Ding, ding, ding Grandma, that was it….thank you so much.

    I get a feeling that regardless of what JB says, he will not be first chair on this trial. So I’m thinking outloud to myself if he will have any part of it at all. And if he doesn’t will be called as a witness, just as Sara was.

  49. I don’t think Joel will be trying this case, either. He may be finding himself in a situation that is pretty sticky… IMO

  50. I think they have it all planned, and the big dogs will be brought in.

    Drew did give his son a sizeably amount of money, that could be used for many purposes. One to bail him out, if bail is granted, attorney fess, and money to help with the kids.

    Drew never seems to have a hard time coming up with money, I think he can afford the best there is out there.

  51. …and then there is the possibility of an unknown with good history to take the case pro bono, for the publicity… ya think?

  52. That could very well be too. I know the co-defense attorney he has now, the one from Michigan has a very good reputation for trying cases.

  53. Facs, no kidding. Thank God for those bar patron’s calling the police. I know if I had been in there, I would have shat my pants….lol.

  54. There’s zero chance that I would have been there, I don’t patronize bars, clubs, etc. Not that I judge others for doing so, there are choices that we all make.

  55. I’m not a “club” type gal. But I’m Irish from Chicago, and once in awhile I will partake in an adult beverage…..lol.

  56. Noway, I can’t even think about it without tearing up.

    I’m actually listening to a song one of my favorite Chicago Irish performers wrote for the Memorial, about fallen officers.

  57. I already got all weepy last night watching The First 48, where these three people shot a cab driver to try to get money to bail a pal out of jail.

    The guy only had $5 in his wallet. His girlfriend was pregnant. She’d left him all these worried texts when he stopped answering his cell.
    ‘Just checking to make sure you’re OK, or alive, LOL’

    *sob*

  58. I hope I don’t have to listen to any news today from a sympathetic gang banger relative of one shot and killed by police, professing excessive force and police brutality. Maybe now that the real truth has reared its ugly head, meaning the split second decisions that have to be made, we’ll all be better off for it.

    And that’s all I have to say about that.

  59. It a crazy world out there. I see someone named ‘bah’ is accused of being ‘Bash’ on Ashley’s place.

    Well if ‘bah’ posts “G*d” without the * then I’d have to believe it’s NOT Bash … plus Bash always comes up with creative versions of basic swear words. I don’t see that bah is doing that. 😉

    IMO, bah is not not Bash.

  60. OMG Facs. Wow, how sad is that?

    What is wrong with our world, seriously?

    I’m sure Rescue can back me up on this, the CPD is a very close family, and when one is hurting all are hurting.

    On the first Sunday of May every year they have the St Jude’s March to honor those that have been killed in the line of duty.

    There hasn’t been one year that when the families march by that I don’t lose it.

    It’s truly something to see. The families march, and following behind them are thousand’s, literally, of officers. Very solemn and respectful.

  61. I told myself I would not look at that poop pile of comments again…but I did. It really looks like a bunch of blindfolded monkeys flinging crap every which way.

    Must. Not. Read. Comments. Again.

  62. Hi everyone. Sad, sad news. I must say that I’m glad I live somewhere where there are not nearly as many guns in circulation. People here all see America as terribly violent with more dangerously loopy people per 100 than here….nope probably nutters at the same concentration, but in America they’ve got guns.

    Does anyone know the upcoming courtdates (guns/Savio estate) July 14?

  63. Oh I see exactly where this is gonna go. The women that shot the officer is going to be declared mentally unstable blah, blah, blah.

    And I can’t even say what I really want to say.

  64. Bucket, I believe that is the right date.

    And your right, guns are the evil. I’m not a huge fan of the NRA.

  65. Facs, that one that gets me the most of all those killings are the children of course, and the 93 year old man.

  66. Oh, I know that police station/bus stop where the shooting took place. Right next to the Toys R Us (and the nights and weekends emergency pet hospital – iIknow that place TOO well)

  67. I agree that guns don’t kill people – people kill people …BUT… if those people didn’t have the guns so readily available, it stand to reason that there would be fewer deaths by guns. I don’t have one, don’t want one. Vehicles are deadly enough, without every other person out there raging and carrying a gun. I’m stepping down, now.

  68. Sadly, he was killed with his own gun. Just so sad!!!!

    My heart is breaking for his family. I just hope they feel the love and comfort that many are praying for them, and standing beside them.

  69. I’m not going to get into the NRA stuff either – too much to argue and go in circles about, but I will point out that the officer was killed with his own gun, so in this case private gun ownership issues don’t apply.

  70. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 12:05 pm

    Facs, that one that gets me the most of all those killings are the children of course, and the 93 year old man.
    *******************

    Ugh, wish we could have some good news.

  71. You and I both.

    Let’s think of something. It’s the 4th of July week, so that should make most people happy.

    Lots of parades, festivals, beautiful fireworks, friends and family bbq’ing.

  72. Hello all! Have had family visiting, so I’ve been otherwise occupied. Whew! This Ashley business has brought out the uglies hasn’t it? Have been reading here this morning to catch up, and checked over there as well to see if she had posted anything new, or had gone to LE with her “stuff.”

    This is all getting to be a little too much for me guys. It’s amazing how much some people are letting their emotions dictate their thoughts and words. It really seems to be getting out of hand, IMO. But I guess some folks just can’t help themselves and say whatever comes to mind, whether it’s insulting, crude, vulgar or whatever. My favorite quote from Plato comes to mind when I read some of the posts of late: “Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.” Nonetheless, I guess public blogs are a platform for the wise and foolish alike, so if we choose to go there, we should expect the obvious. For my part, I think I’m done with posting or reading on any other blogs but this one. At least there are sane, civil people here….most of the time. 😀

    And….I’m getting concerend about our Bash as well. Last time she was absent, it was because of a hospital stay, so I hope nothing serious has come up. We miss you Bash! Pop in if you’re reading and let us know if you’re okay or whatever, although I’m sure you would have if you were. It’s my turn to be Romeo Dromio, so I’m waiting!!

    Any other news I’ve missed?

  73. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 12:39 pm

    Did we ever hear anything about the ability to PM each other here?
    ++++++++++++
    Not that I’m aware Noway, but Rescue posted a “throw away” email address on here that she and I have been using. Maybe she will post it again, and we can use that to exchange emails. I set one up just for that purpose that she and I use sometimes. Other sites that we’re members of have also said we could use theirs as well.

    And you’re right, she could be traveling somewhere, but she knows she should have told us about it before she left!! 😀

  74. Anywhere I’m a member that has PMs I guess!

    When did she last post here? I saw a post from her from June 29 elsewhere …

  75. Sorry, been on the phone. I don’t know when her last post on here was without going back to look. BTW, not many of us can email you at SYM any longer, lol. Yes, I saw your :D, lol. I’m at Lavanda’s too, but don’t remember at the moment if it’s as Angel or CFS7360, but it’s one or the other. Never have posted there, but do read there occasionally. I was originally Concerned for Stacy on here until we had to register. Uused to get accused of being Concerned4Stacy, who was a member at FSP, but she is in another state, and came to my defense on here after all that went on.

  76. Do any of you mind telling what your nic was at FSP? I was AndU and am still that on Lavanda’s board.

  77. I believe she would have contacted the authorities right away and let them know she was conversing with him, and ask for help.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I do agree with you as well, but it seems like sometimes LE does not pay attention.. I have called ISP, and they dont even call you back to enquire… Sometimes if there is a LEGIT beef, and ya dont feel like nothing will be done; It may be better to expose party.. Very fine line here, and I still feel non-trustworthy to this blog!!! Bash, my prayers are with you, and we are all here for you!! God Bless YOU!!! XOXO

  78. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:34 am
    If she would have just made her posts, and left it at that, that would be one thing, but she is on the comment section speaking like a true low life, in my opinion
    ______________________

    Until last night, I had only read the emails, PMs, and instant messages that Ashley posted.

    I went back and read the comments section on Ashley’s most recent posting late last night.

    I’m shocked at the comments made by mostly anonymous posters. Doesn’t anyone know any other words besides a limited range of four-letter words? And what happened to English grammer – isn’t it being taught in schools any more??? I cringe when I see, “I seen” and some of the other improper use of the English language. It denotes a lack of education.

    But, more than grammer, why is everyone attacking everyone else? There’s a murdered woman and a woman who’s missing. The one common denominator is Drew Peterson who was married to each of these woman. Why do people focus their anger on other posters, rather than on the man who’s most likely the perpetrator?

  79. myblueshark // July 2, 2008 at 6:22 am

    Well, I’ll say good morning to you all. I am probably asleep as you read this because I couldn’t sleep tonight. That means I will get another late start on the day and the drama.
    _________

    I just realized you are planning your insomnia in advance!

    And for those that care and those that don’t:

    Volunteer Land Search – Saturday July 5, & Sunday July 6, 2008
    Volunteer land searches will continue, please meet at the Aquatic Center at 8:30am.
    Please remember to wear footwear for muddy and rocky terrain. Tennis shoes NOT recommended! Boots or hiking footwear for your own safety!

    Please meet at:
    Bolingbrook Aquatic Center – Click here for Map
    200 Lindsey Lane
    Bolingbrook, IL 60440
    Time: 8:30AM

  80. The Ashley site has turned into sort of WordPress/FSP without the rules if you will. No disrespect to WordPress or FSP. Hopefully you know what I mean.

    IMO, it seems that anyone who does not ride the he’s a guilty SOB bus and anyone who questions the fundraising or disagrees with Sharon is now fair game to having personal attacks made.

    We saw it here with BigM.

    And there are those that will now say that, you put it out on the internet, it’s not personal etc. And that’s cool. Hide behind that.

    I often think about what Stacy and Kathleen is feeling about all of this.

  81. No matter who’s personal info is out there, it is not fair to use in in board wars. We all have things to be embarrassed about as well as pride about.

    I recently “spoke” with Bash., she is ok as far as I know. Sometimes we just need to walk outside in the sun for a while. Keep at least one foot in reality.

  82. On FSP, I can only speak for myself, but when a family goes thru this horrible unimagineable type of tragedy, and the suspect is thought, and felt to be guilty; People do tend to get beyond angry.. Remember if someone hurt your loved one, and you were full of every hate, anger, spite, bitter, and revengeful feeling, and YOU COULDN’T DO A DANG THING BUT LISTEN TO BS, AND WATCH INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR, it wears on society’s behavior itself.. Im not talking rocket science here but, please try to understand, and be more LENIANT to emotionally disturbed people, who are so HURT, and ANGRY from the hand of another… I remember when my mother was mamed by the hands of someone I knew, and how my WHOLE FAMILY FELT… So until you go thru something like this, it is so easy to say how a person should act… It really is!! People are brought to their knees by such atrocities, and their emotions are the last thing they think of… I voiced my opinion on DP, and I’ve seen 1st hand, how a DEFENSE attorney works, and it is quite disgusting!

    Ive never used a defense attorney myself, and for lawabiding citizens it is a slap in the face, the crap they pull.. Im sorry for the rant, but its got to be said.. No one knows for sure how they would act in this sitation… All I know is how me, and my whole family did in ours…Your head is not straight when someone is killed viciousley!!

    PS. please excuse my spelling and punctuation…

  83. sher, I’m sorry about your mom.

    I would agree about what you say. I think he did it too, but the guy needs to be judged by the law.

    The site wouldn’t have been so bad had it been some site like this or any of the myriad SP sites out there… the biggest problem was that it was the official site.

    The crap spewed on there would have been understandable ELSEWHERE. It should never have been tolerated there.

    Why do you think support ground to near-zero?
    Just a handful of people in a 8-million person area. Then add the internet people who care. There were hundreds who *may have been* turned off by just logging in.

    I GET the outrage, I truly do.

  84. teneleven // July 2, 2008 at 1:41 pm

    The Ashley site has turned into sort of WordPress/FSP without the rules if you will. No disrespect to WordPress or FSP. Hopefully you know what I mean.

    IMO, it seems that anyone who does not ride the he’s a guilty SOB bus and anyone who questions the fundraising or disagrees with Sharon is now fair game to having personal attacks made.
    *****************

    I have to disagree. During my last visit to Ashley’s blog comments (and so far I’ve resisted any urge to visit again) I saw a lot of crap being thrown in all directions. I didn’t see any overwhelming support of any individual, board, suspect or victim – just chaos, insults and bad grammar all around. Very ugly.

  85. FYI
    All spelling and punctuation errors in blogs are automatically forgiven. Didn’t you all know that?

    😀
    CCM
    SGPPA

  86. Sher – very well said. I am so sorry about your personal tragedy. Thank you for your insights.

  87. MollyMcgee sadi: I cringe when I see, “I seen” and some of the other improper use of the English language. It denotes a lack of education.

    Facs said: During my last visit to Ashley’s blog comments (and so far I’ve resisted any urge to visit again) I saw a lot of crap being thrown in all directions – just chaos, insults and bad grammar all around. Very ugly.

    Facs: I seen that too. Whoa is me !

  88. Sher, I hear ya sister. So sorry to hear about your mother, especially when you knew the person that hurt her.

  89. lol 😀
    CCM = Card Carrying Member
    SGPPA = Spelling and Grammar Police Protection Association

    Found more than one person who thinks we should not be waisting our time … and cfs, I’ve PMd you at L’s. Whenever you’re there again. 🙂

  90. Rescue, he hasn’t posted since yesterday afternoon and has not been on since last night … but I’m not using stealth detection software, so that might be a little off! 😀

  91. Noway, I got the SGPPA, lol, but couldn’t quite figure out what CCA meant. Although, you do quite well as our crises manager too. 😀

    “Waisting” our time? On what? Ashley’s blog, or pointing out spelling boo boos?

    Will check at Lavanda’s. Thanks!

  92. cfs, no not on Ashley’s … just another site … and it caught my eye because it had been discussed. Who was it who used that … Drew or Joel? I think one of them.

  93. Might be a good slogan for a weight loss organization: Don’t WAIST your time with other guys … lose weight with us!

  94. Noway – YOUR (joking) not using your stealth detector, and I lost my Super Secret Decoder Book. I hate when that happens.

    CFS – hi. Was looking for you earlier. YGM.

    I’ve gone to the Crimerant site to look see, but nothing new there.

  95. Noway – Don’t WAIST your time…..

    You should get paid a lot of money for using that use of the word in such a clever way. Somebody should get sumpum for it.

  96. I hate having three posts in a row but had this thought:

    IF Matt is called before the GJ and they give him immunity (GJ does decide who gets immunity) from testifying against himself as far as illegal phone recordings go, would that mean that Joel could not bring charges against him?

    The Prosecutor may decide to ask the Court to grant the witness immunity from prosecution for any criminal conduct the witness may reveal by his or her testimony. If the Court grants such immunity, the witness is required to answer completely the questions asked by the Prosecutor or grand jurors, but the witness may not thereafter be prosecuted for any crimes that testimony reveals.

    http://www.state.il.us/court/CircuitCourt/Jury/GrandJuror.asp

  97. Did anyone hear about the hostages in Columbia were rescued after 5 years? FREEDOM! Perfect timing for this holiday weekend. IMO

  98. Sorry if my post about the hostages was OT. It’s nice to have some good news for once.

    In regards to Ashley’s blog. You reap what you sew.

  99. Good news is always welcome!

    Noway, anytime I can save you from the triple whamy, I’m all for it.

  100. Gals, Your just waisting you’re time here if you think I could careless after what I seen their on them other blogs.

    Woe, it’s kind of freeing, ain’t it?

    I ready to hang up my badge!

  101. Thanks Rescue, was just wondering.

    Noway, good point about Matt, and even if his potential prosecution (not likely IMO) would be for breaking the law in a different state (CT), it seems a Federal GJ would be able to grant him immunity. However, isn’t the GJ that is convened in this case the Will County GJ? Not sure, just asking.

  102. facsmiley // July 2, 2008 at 3:15 pm

    Gals, Your just waisting you’re time here if you think I could careless after what I seen their on them other blogs.

    Woe, it’s kind of freeing, ain’t it?

    I ready to hang up my badge!
    —————————————————-

    OH NO!!!!!! The grammar, the spelling, punctuation. I am blindeded! hehe

  103. teneleven // July 2, 2008 at 3:15 pm

    You reap what you sew

    +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

    Ain’t that the truth.

    __________________

    It shore is, but it ain’t sew, it’s sow. I just knowed that Duckyone was just funnin’ us thow. Yep, them oder blogs is sumpin ells. 😀

  104. Whoa! That’s some angry stuff going on over there!
    I won’t jump into that back stabbing mess. I do have to say that it looks as if many people are getting some stuff off of their chests. They say it isn’t good to keep things bottled up, maybe this will be therapeutic for some.
    In a few days the internet will be all peace and love. 🙂

  105. cfs … btw I figured out my error and was looking in the wrong place. Tried to PM you back again but got a message telling me I couldn’t send another message that quickly. 😦 What’s that all about?

    Hmm … it just said prosecuted … didn’t say in the same jurisdiction. I don’t know …

    Ducky, next thing to go is correct capitalization.

    Wear protective lenses. 8)

  106. If the Court grants such immunity, the witness is required to answer completely the questions asked by the Prosecutor or grand jurors, but the witness may not thereafter be prosecuted for any crimes that testimony reveals.
    __________
    Don’t know if it would just apply to the prosecutor in Will County or prosecution anywhere.

  107. You know what? The funny thing is, we do have some people in my state that really do talk like that. There is not just ONE Southern accent, there are many, just as in the northern part of this wonderful county.

  108. MBS said: They say it isn’t good to keep things bottled up, maybe this will be therapeutic for some.
    ++++++++++++++
    That is just exactly what Drew said when he told Ashley he loved her! He said it felt like getting something bottled up off his chest. 😀

  109. bah said…
    …and you are all clearly to stupid to see that I’m not Basherette. Did I say “G*d” or “shitake mushrooms” for shit’s sake?
    _______
    🙂
    Gosh, wish I’d thought of that! 😉

  110. CFS-UGH! I didn’t type sew. Chit. Head hangs down in shame.

    Noway-Ashley said that she was going to LE today. Maybe they told her to shut it?

  111. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 3:30 pm

    MBS said: They say it isn’t good to keep things bottled up, maybe this will be therapeutic for some.
    ********************************
    If that’s the case, maybe I should start a blog just to let people spew their bile. If anyone starts trying to talk sense or be kind – blam – post deleted.

    Then everyone could say all the horrible things that are burdening them, and come back to their own boards happy and relieved.

  112. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 3:30 pm

    MBS said: They say it isn’t good to keep things bottled up, maybe this will be therapeutic for some.
    ++++++++++++++
    That is just exactly what Drew said when he told Ashley he loved her! He said it felt like getting something bottled up off his chest. 😀
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    OMG! I’m not dp, and didn’t even remember he said that until you pointed it out. 🙂

  113. Ducky, well I’ve asked anyway. Wondered if she was back from her visit with LE … you’d think they’d shut the site down if they told her to shut it.

    LOL … I was going to let “you reap what you sew” just go … 😀

  114. Noway, I’ve never pm’d there until today, so I don’t know. Try again when you can. I’ll check back.

    Ashley may be at the police station explaining why she shouldn’t go to jail, lol. Just kidding. She may be IN JAIL trying to post bond. Again just kidding. Ashley, just kidding Honey. This is your business, not mine. But Noway, she usually updates at night, doesn’t she?

  115. cfs, I looked and the PM went. Just telling you I was wrong and misreading and 😳 on my part.

    Ducky, that’s the question on my mind too. I don’t think the GJ needs to take a day off. 🙂

  116. Well I thought my chat room would be good for some venting to keep it off the board. I know these people needed something to release the anger that has been building up all these months. I do think some will feel better after venting. Unfortunately others will feel hurt.

  117. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 3:39 pm

    Ducky, well I’ve asked anyway. Wondered if she was back from her visit with LE … you’d think they’d shut the site down if they told her to shut it.

    LOL … I was going to let “you reap what you sew” just go …
    —————————————————-
    Obviously, Cfs has it in for me! She had to go and call me out. BOO HOO. Well, I think that I will go over to Ashley’s and vent my frustrations about her. LOL. Kidding! 😉

  118. We could send an email to Drew now that we know his email address. Just ask him when his son is scheduled to testify at the GJ … I’m sure he’ll reply.

    😉

  119. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 3:37 pm

    CFS-UGH! I didn’t type sew. Chit. Head hangs down in shame.

    Noway-Ashley said that she was going to LE today. Maybe they told her to shut it?
    +++++++++++++++
    Hey Duck, I honestly thought you did it on purpose, lol, since we were talking about spelling and grammar. Please don’t think I was pointing it out, lololol.

  120. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 3:42 pm

    We could send an email to Drew now that we know his email address. Just ask him when his son is scheduled to testify at the GJ … I’m sure he’ll reply.
    —————————————————
    Ok. I’m sending it. Not. You crazy woman.

    They are calling us old women over at Ashley’s. The beauty of the Internet is that you can tell them you are an old hen and they believe you. I’m a spring chicken. Oh no, there is the bird reference again.

  121. Noway – your copy and paste brought up the point that I made the other day, and something I need to constantly remind myself. Our world is small but the Internet is big…and though it’s tempting to try to call out people we don’t like as being someone who has offended us in the past, it’s probably not the case.

    It’s funny to me to see all these familiar nicknames dragged into the comments at Ashley’s site. Maybe because she has a link to this site on her blog?

    Yay, Internet drama!

  122. MBS, most of the attacks seem NOT to be directed at Ashley. An occasional one yes, but that’s to be expected. IMO

  123. myblueshark // July 2, 2008 at 3:44 pm

    Do you guys think dp is at that blog stirring up some crap for ashley? I wouldn’t be surprised.
    ***************************

    I did see one comment that seemed to say that lots of people had been contacting DP via his Yahoo ID, but that it had all been positive.

    (It was hard to decipher, especially since it mentioned spewing ‘vile’ and I think they meant ‘bile’.)

    Who would know that besides DP?

  124. This is my FAVORITE from dpbs. LOL!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am going on Ellen, and when
    I stand up and pick my wedgie, that means I love you.

    July 1, 2008 11:40 PM

  125. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 3:45 pm

    They are calling us old women over at Ashley’s. The beauty of the Internet is that you can tell them you are an old hen and they believe you. I’m a spring chicken. Oh no, there is the bird reference again.
    *******************************

    Oh you – stop trying to josh us, Ms. Methuselah ! Get on up out of your rocker and let’s do those aero-botics that the doc prescribed so’s to strengthen out crickety ol’ bones.

    Give me just a sec while I drop the needle on the gramaphone. Want “I Kissed a Girl” again, or something off the new Coldplay?

  126. myblueshark // July 2, 2008 at 3:57 pm

    This is my FAVORITE from dpbs. LOL!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am going on Ellen, and when
    I stand up and pick my wedgie, that means I love you.
    ******************
    I admit I LOL’d when I saw that, too!

  127. myblueshark // July 2, 2008 at 3:57 pm

    This is my FAVORITE from dpbs. LOL!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am going on Ellen, and when
    I stand up and pick my wedgie, that means I love you.

    July 1, 2008 11:40 PM
    +++++++++++++++++++++

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!! That’s the funniest thing I’ve read in months!!!!!

  128. I guess those people must think we’re just sitting around our various old folks homes, barely computer literate, trying to discuss this case and see what’s going on in every other blog, like the nosey old hens they think we are. That’s okay. We know better, and at least we can spell.

  129. facsmiley // July 2, 2008 at 4:02 pm

    duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 3:45 pm

    They are calling us old women over at Ashley’s. The beauty of the Internet is that you can tell them you are an old hen and they believe you. I’m a spring chicken. Oh no, there is the bird reference again.
    *******************************

    Oh you – stop trying to josh us, Ms. Methuselah ! Get on up out of your rocker and let’s do those aero-botics that the doc prescribed so’s to strengthen out crickety ol’ bones.

    Give me just a sec while I drop the needle on the gramaphone. Want “I Kissed a Girl” again, or something off the new Coldplay?
    ————————————————

    Hahahaha! Can I join you? I vote for Coldplay, love those guys! 🙂

  130. You can spell too Let. 😀 We all make mistakes, intentional or otherwise.

    Have to go make dinner now. BBL.

  131. Just keeps getting worse and worse at Ashley’s blog.

    I bet Drew Peterson and Joel Brodsky are laughing their asses off :-/

  132. Noway, pm at Lavanda’s. Stay safe Let. Check in when it’s over.

    Gotta get out of my robe, and into my bra and panties so I can cook some pasta for the old man. Hope he doesn’t lose his appetite after I go to all the trouble. You know, we’re just a bunch of old hens on here for the most part, not Victoria’s Secret models. BBL, if I have the energy after cooking and loading the dishwasher. 😀

  133. teneleven // July 2, 2008 at 4:54 pm

    Just keeps getting worse and worse at Ashley’s blog.

    I bet Drew Peterson and Joel Brodsky are laughing their asses off :-/
    ——————————————————–
    Sorry, but the last couple of posts have me laughing!

  134. Oh my ,I was just threatened on Ashley’s blog… What is going on there? Someone is really picking apart FSP, and all of a sudden they say, “watch yourself, or you will end up 2soon2besingle”
    Im really not to keen on someone telling me, watch out.. Sounds like a damn thhreat to my husband, doesnt it? How dare they? I believe I can and will call LE on this…

  135. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 4:55 pm

    Noway, pm at Lavanda’s. Stay safe Let. Check in when it’s over.

    Gotta get out of my robe, and into my bra and panties so I can cook some pasta for the old man. Hope he doesn’t lose his appetite after I go to all the trouble. You know, we’re just a bunch of old hens on here for the most part, not Victoria’s Secret models. BBL, if I have the energy after cooking and loading the dishwasher.
    —————————————————–
    Speak for yourself. This old hen has a rockin body. BTW, forget the bra, go topless with a thong for the old man. LOL!

  136. Is it JUSTME or it seems like you SHER don’t get out of that garden much, be careful you may find yourself 2SOON2BESINGLE
    **********
    OH MY, IS THAT A THREAT TOWARDS MY FAMILY OR SOMETHING? I FEEL THREATENED…Oh my!

    July 2, 2008 4:58 PM

  137. Sher-read it again. It’s to Roy and saying that he SURE (using your name) doesn’t get out of the garden much.

    Are you playing? That post had me quacking up!

  138. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 5:03 pm
    Speak for yourself. This old hen has a rockin body. BTW, forget the bra, go topless with a thong for the old man. LOL!
    ++++++++++++++++++

    Ducky, I don’t want to give him a heart attack. 😀

  139. Good Afternoon.

    Have you seen the poll at CrimeRant? Good to see that those guys have a sense of humor. It made me giggle.

    CrimeRant Poll
    Which of the following lawyers would Drew Peterson fare best with if he went to trial?
    Robert Kardashian: 9%
    Johnny Cochrane: 9%
    Joel Brodsky: 2%
    Either of the dead guys: 80%

  140. harleyjoey // July 2, 2008 at 5:15 pm

    Or maybe they aren’t joking!
    ——————————————————-
    Hehe!! Funny stuff.

  141. No, I believe when you use my name, and tell me to be watchful, that I may end up to soon to be single can be taken as a threat to my family…. No, I dont appreciate threats!!

  142. Wait Sher. You are reading it wrong, the entire post is to ROY. They said Sher in place of SURE.

    When “you”? I didn’t say anything to you.

    Sorry. I’m outta here. Drama.

  143. My nic was used also, and I didnt give it much thought, other than the person is pretty creative….:)

  144. Did it ever cross your mind that…
    “2SOON2BESINGLE” is not a threat, but might just be a persons “screenname” ?
    It is really easy to mis-read stuff…and this case makes it even easier to mis-read stuff…
    You are NOT being threatened!

  145. Whomever that is, they are creative. Imagine making a story out of all the nics involved in this mess.

  146. Not saying it’s right, just creative. It would take me forever do put something like that together.

  147. I was reading about the whole book/phelps/crimerant stuff. It sounds like a conference calling service was involved. I use one all the time, and I as the “conference leader” have the option of recording it. It is a common feature by these services. There are several purposes for this:

    1 – Depending on the purpose of the call – for example a company meeting – a recording is done and made available for “replay” to those who missed the call.

    2 – Is for simple recall of what was discussed.

    I have never used that feature, but I’m not sure it is even required to announce that the call is being recorded.

    Just wanted to mention that…..

  148. Ok I’m not understanding what’s going on at Ashley? Is someone posting old newspaper articles? And the purpose is to show what?

  149. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 6:57 pm

    Ok I’m not understanding what’s going on at Ashley? Is someone posting old newspaper articles? And the purpose is to show what?
    __________
    What? I’m old and don’t understand much and the nursing home staff won’t explain anything to me! 😉

  150. That board has taken a complete different directions, and its hard to understand where some stand.

    My home tells me nothing, they just give out little blue and pink pills 😉

  151. Who know what, bringing up Rachel Mellon is pretty low. I’m really hoping they are not insinuating that Drew had something to do with her disappearance.

  152. This old duck is predicting that someone is trying to bury posts while Ashley is away. I’m pushing the button, but my nurse won’t answer me. I might have an accident soon if she doesn’t respond. lol

    LTTBF: Mine are only white, can you share? I like pink n blue 😉

  153. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 7:10 pm

    I get no pills and no popcorn. WTF? I’m blowing this joint first chance I get!
    ——————————————————-
    I’ll break you out! This duck can fly, the more pills I have, the faster my wings flap. I can’t chew popcorn, my dentures will break. Can they put it in the blender for me? 😉

  154. Let, what the heck are you talking about … old newspaper articles?

    I guess I’ll go with pink. 😉

  155. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 7:15 pm

    Never been good at geography. Where is Canada again?
    ******************************

    It’s that BIG state up at the top ^.

  156. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 7:14 pm

    Ducky….Poligrip my friend, works wonders…..lol.
    ——————————————————-
    hehe! taking notes, but my arthritis is kicking in. 🙂

  157. Did Amanda get taken by aliens? Amanda … you posted and ran … ‘splain what you’re thinkin’

  158. I wouldn’t think a Canadian credit card company would advertise in the US.

    We have different currency, different ways of calculating credit etc.

    That was a very good catch on Amanda’s, or whomevers part.

  159. facsmiley // July 2, 2008 at 7:16 pm

    noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 7:15 pm

    Never been good at geography. Where is Canada again?
    ******************************

    It’s that BIG state up at the top ^.
    ———————————————————
    Top of what? South pole? State? Did you have something to state/say? lol My memory is slipping. I need to get together with LLTBF-they make pills for everything, I hear. lol

  160. Can you just imagine this supposed Ashley walking into the local authorities office…to be a fly on the wall for that conversation.

  161. Noway, look out your window in a northerly direction, and there you have it….Canada….lol.

  162. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 7:25 pm

    Noway, look out your window in a northerly direction, and there you have it….Canada….lol.
    *************************

    Hey, Canada has a bunny in it!

  163. I was just kidding about not knowing where Canada was. Really.

    This is the website for Capital One in Canada

    http://www.capitalone.ca/

    And facs noticed another Canadian ad … so what does that make anyone think.

    “Ashley” probably didn’t have any connection to Drew before chatting, eh?

  164. teneleven // July 2, 2008 at 1:41 pm

    The Ashley site has turned into sort of WordPress/FSP without the rules if you will. No disrespect to WordPress or FSP. Hopefully you know what I mean.

    IMO, it seems that anyone who does not ride the he’s a guilty SOB bus and anyone who questions the fundraising or disagrees with Sharon is now fair game to having personal attacks made.

    We saw it here with BigM.

    And there are those that will now say that, you put it out on the internet, it’s not personal etc. And that’s cool. Hide behind that.

    I often think about what Stacy and Kathleen is feeling about all of this.
    +++++++++++++++++++++++

    Was reading back through some of the posts that I skimmed over earlier, and this one caught my interest.

    Teneleven, with all due respect, I don’t quite get how you could even compare Ashley’s site to this one, or even FSP, but if that’s your opinion, so be it. Actually, my personal observation of Ashley’s site is that it’s almost identical to the atmosphere at another site we all know, from which some left voluntarily, and many were kicked out. Sound familiar? However, Ashley, at this point, allows anyone and everyone. The other site doesn’t. Really, that’s the only difference I see as far as the posting content in concerned. Her’s is immensely more interesting because she has her “stuff” she wants everyone to see. Too bad that a lot of the posters on there are using it for their own personal platform to get back at anybody and everybody that ever hurt their feelings or made them mad, or whatever their agenda may be.

    Furthermore, from what I saw, the admin at SYM was not discussed here because of his beliefs or disbeliefs in this case, but rather his attitude and arrogance toward his members, and the repulsive content of his board. I agree others brought in some of his postings from other sites be belonged to, but there were many here who thought that shouldn’t have been done. However, it is not up to any member on here to say what is allowed or not allowed on this site, and it is by far the most civil and respectable board on which many of us have ever posted or belonged to, and we are not all former FSP members either. Again, this blog it not for everyone, but nobody has to stay here, or anywhere else if they don’t like it.

    If Kathleen and Stacy are in any kind of state to feel anything about this, as you sad you wondered, I hope they are feeling that justice will be served for their children and families. And Ten, that’s really all most of truly want anyway. We just all have different ways of expressing it, whether it’s here or somewhere else more suited to our own personalities.

    You stated your opinion. This is just mine. No offense mended. JMO, okay?

  165. Let, I’m horrible at geography but do know where Canada is. 🙂

    And yes, she said she was going to LE today … which is why people have been asking her if she needs bail money.

  166. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 7:27 pm

    Wasn’t today the day she was supposedly going to the authorities?
    —————————————————–
    That is what she said last night. If she went to the authorities, she no longer has that computer. JMO

  167. If they start posting cat pictures, that will be a clue as to who they are…Just saying!!!!

  168. Re: Peterson Case Discussion # 3
    « Reply #188 Today at 5:57pm »

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    My understanding is that Hosey’s book hasn’t even gone to press yet. That means it is months away from hitting the stores, if not longer. How long it takes to get to press depends on advance sales as books with good advance sales go tot he front of the line.

  169. Re: Q&A Joel Brodsky
    « Reply #502 Today at 6:12pm »

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    Breaking my silence on Ashley for this one post: Drew never met Ashley in person, never spoke to her on the phone, and even though he was sent a picture (of a very striking looking woman in her late 20’s), there was no way to verify if the picture was truely Ashley. Therefore, there is no way to know who and what Ashley really is, (except we know it is a fake name) For all we know Ashley could be an overweight, bald, middle aged, male, beer drinking truck driver. We simply don’t and can’t know. I told this to Drew (who is not really internet savy) and he agreed that this could be the case. His feeling is: If that the case then the jokes on me. No problem though, he appreciates a good practical joke and he is already over it. (like you all should be) Now I am back to the no further comments on Ashely (or Fred, or Lucy, or Ricky, or Shirley or whatever her real name is)
    « Last Edit: Today at 6:13pm by joelbrodsky »

  170. Guys, did you know that “mended” was a combination of intended and meant? It’s just a new word I created accidently that you all are free to sued whnever you need to. 😀

  171. I know BigM doesnt have many fans in here.

    I personally have never had a problem with him. When he has said something I didnt like I would address it with him, and it was over and done with.

    With that being said, there is NO reason at all for them be posting his name, where he lives etc.

    They have hit some low points over there, and it seems to be getting worse.

  172. facs, I had posted that above and given the link to Amazon. Joel just didn’t read my post!

    Someone complimented him on his “Ashley could be an overweight, bald, middle aged, male, beer drinking truck driver” comment.

    I said “Yeah, wonder where he came up with that one!” 😀 or words to that effect.

  173. Being that I know a thing or two about publishing of books, a book could go to print tomorrow, and depending on who the printer is, it could be ready in as little as a couple of weeks.

    It’s common for books to advance in Europe, as many times they are printed there.

    We use a printer in Italy. We have been there a couple of times while a book was in print, and they would send us some at the hotel we were staying in etc.

    For a book of this nature, I can’t imagine why they would do a first release in Europe, as the story really isn’t that big there, but oh well, probably just testing the waters.

  174. I must have ADD … I went over there to PM BigM and saw that Joel had the most recent post … la la la … dementia is setting in. 😉

  175. Ok you computer people, whats the purpose of posting all those old news articles on Ashley’s? What am I missing?

  176. Facs, were you the one that saw it on sale in Europe? If so, was it in a European book store, or Amazon?

  177. You guys have been hilarious with your nursing home jokes. I’ve sat here and laughed till the tears were streaming! Got to go load the dishes now. Had to take a little break after cooking dinner. BBL.

  178. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 7:54 pm

    Facs, were you the one that saw it on sale in Europe? If so, was it in a European book store, or Amazon?
    *****************

    I saw it through Amazon, but it was being sold as a “used” book (still in plastic). Someone was hoping to profit by selling it to an american audience and hefted the price up over $100.

  179. I have no idea why someone is posting all those news articles. To put the focus back on the case?

  180. The reason I’m asking is, I’m thinking it’s not *really* being sold in Europe. It might be being printed their and someone within the printing company is being an opportunist.

    Just a thought.

  181. Something just dawned on me.

    If someone stateside works for a company that has companies internationally, and let’s say they work within the US and let’s say Canada, isn’t it possible they could possibly have to two email accounts?

    Coould it be someone that works in IT for a company, and is using a server from their company in another location?

  182. Let, one of my sisters works for a company whose main office is in a southern state … her work email “looks” like she is in that state too … but she is not.

    And when she sends an email to me, it goes “to” their office in the south before coming the 6 miles to my ISP. 😀

  183. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 8:02 pm

    The reason I’m asking is, I’m thinking it’s not *really* being sold in Europe. It might be being printed their and someone within the printing company is being an opportunist.

    Just a thought.
    _________________
    Availability: This title has not yet been released. You may pre-order it now and we will deliver it to you when it arrives. Dispatched from and sold by Amazon.co.uk.

    Post went to never never land because I had link to Amazon’s ad for the book.

  184. In one of “Ashley’s” posts she says that she is a web designer. She is probably using a proxy that changes her location as well as IP.

  185. Here’s another thought on the Canada thing.

    Most ads are targeted these days, meaning that your previous web activity can determine the ads that pop up when you visit a page. So, if Ashley had been just surfing Canadian sites – maybe looking for a place of refuge where she and Drew could spend that honeymoon come November – then she might get ads for canadian sites and services showing up.

  186. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 8:04 pm

    Something just dawned on me.

    If someone stateside works for a company that has companies internationally, and let’s say they work within the US and let’s say Canada, isn’t it possible they could possibly have to two email accounts?

    Coould it be someone that works in IT for a company, and is using a server from their company in another location?
    _____________________

    What are you getting at? I must be lost?

  187. girlygurl // July 2, 2008 at 8:11 pm

    In one of “Ashley’s” posts she says that she is a web designer. She is probably using a proxy that changes her location as well as IP.
    ********************

    Also a good explanation. Especially if the whole Cozy up to Drew thing was a set-up.

  188. This has always been a BIG question to me. I remember reading this. When FSP was in it’s haydays, with all the nonsense, it always struck me as odd that we NEVER, EVER heard from this attorney.

    It also struck me that this attorney never advised them on the proper ways to handle certain things, charitable statues, proper ways of handling the media etc.

    This was the first and only time we have heard of this attorney.

    Stacy Peterson’s sister has hired a Washington, DC lawyer who has come to Chicago to meet with her.

    Attorney Kevin McCants says he was contacted about the same time the FBI got involved in the investigation. His office is next door to the agency.

  189. Harley –

    Just trying to figure out the Canadian angle, but I think people have posted how easy it for that happen. She/he could be anywhere, and just using a proxy ip service etc.

  190. “Cheerleader and girlscout outfits”

    With all seriousness I am telling you that I am about to take a shower.

    See you later.

  191. Pic # 1 – This was in March and he was going to try online dating but then he met me ? Shouldn’t he have been out looking for Stacy ? After all he did say she was alive ( oh yea that’s right he knows she’s dead so it’s ok to start dating ) , isn’t it lovely how he is going to build a Russian bride & spec her out like a car – guess that’s why it’s so easy for him to kill because he treats human life like he does a car “. Don’t like it then I’ll sell / kill it ” you are a piece of shit Drew .
    Pic # 2 – Maybe the ISP would not be up his ass if he would just stop killing his wives, but notice how he says he has seen the ISP do a lot of shady things and that’s his fear – it’s amazing how he never ever takes blame for anything , it’s always the other persons fault , everyone is lying, and they all want to keep him sinister . Once again he is just trying to act like the victim , why the need to do that?
    Pic # 3 – He lies about not having any human touch for 5 months & then when I bust him out about a girl he had 3 weeks prior ( which would have put us in Feb, which meant Stacy was only missing / killed for 3 1/2 months ? ). He called the relationship plastic , not real ,non emotional , and she is a self centered ditz ( wow , Drew you not only lie 24/7 and get caught , but this is just another thing to show what you really think of females – maybe she was just PMS’ING ) , but yet she was good enough for you to have her play dress up in a cheerleader & girl scout outfit ? Well, I got good news Drew and no it’s not that I saved a bundle on my car insurance , ” Its That 2 More Girlfriends Of Yours From The Internet Will Be Coming Forward Soon ” with what they have , your PR guy better set down the pad & paper AND grab a few mops and start doing some janitorial work to TRY & clean some of this shit up .. The silence from you and your weak A – ass team speaks volumes ..

    __________

    You’ll have to read the text yourself on the screens.

    My transcribing days are over.

  192. The “good” news is that two more girlfriends of Drew’s from the Internet will be coming forward.

    😀

    We’ll be showering 24/7. 😉

  193. She is very computer literate, so I’m sure she is using a proxy to keep us guessing where she really is.

    Drew … watch out … you could be dating your mother!

    LOL 😀

  194. This is Cassandra style writing:

    Its That 2 More Girlfriends Of Yours From The Internet Will Be Coming Forward Soon “

  195. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 8:22 pm

    She is very computer literate, so I’m sure she is using a proxy to keep us guessing where she really is.

    Drew … watch out … you could be dating your mother!

    LOL
    **************

    OMG Now this is FUNNY !!!!!!!!! ROFLMAO

  196. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 8:24 pm

    This is Cassandra style writing:

    Its That 2 More Girlfriends Of Yours From The Internet Will Be Coming Forward Soon “
    ___________
    IMO she is playing mind games with people trying to figure out her style of writing.

    IMO Cass does not have this kind of skill.

    IS there a family member who does?

  197. Does make me wonder how three women chatting with Drew all found each other two.

    The bait was set … the trap in place … and he bit three times?

    OMG!

    😀

  198. Well, I got good news Drew and no it’s not that I saved a bundle on my car insurance , ” Its That 2 More Girlfriends Of Yours From The Internet Will Be Coming Forward Soon ” with what they have
    ********************************

    No, it’s in quotes – she capitalized it like the title of a news story.

    And yes, I did shower that fast.

  199. Can I just say something? I’m really disappointed that Cassandra was even brought up as a possible participant. I know this is a blog where freedom to express one’s opinion is openly welcomed, as long as it’s within the rules, but I just want to state my opinion about that. Since Cassandra is not here (at least openly blogging as herself), I think it’s really inconsiderate to even bring her up as being involved with this Ashley stuff.

    If I am wrong, then I’ll admit it. But if it’s entertainment and mere speculation, well, I guess I’m not in the loop.

  200. Rescue – I don’t think Cass is at all involved, but in all fairness, and after what I’ve seen lately as far as outing and naming, etc. I don’t think it’s beyond the pale for anyone to be tossed out as a possibility.

  201. All I said was it was Cassandra’s style of writing. I didn’t say it was her.

    I’m sorry Rescue, I know you don’t like anyone discussing anything that pertains to the family. But it will come up from time to time, she made herself available out there for all to see.

    The reason I mentioned it was, that capping every word always drove me nuts, and it jumped out at me in that post.

  202. Yeah, I can see that. That’s why that comment section is so not right. It’s turned into a toxic waste dump. I just was really bummed about the Cassandra thing. I’ve not seen anything she’s done that would warrant speculating she’d be capable of doing something like this. This is going to slam dunk nailing her BIL for the murder of her sister. It would set her back in credibility enormously. Only saying this because she’s been pretty dignified throughout.

    But, hey, what do I know.

  203. JB, Drew etc arent on this board, but it’s ok to discuss them without them being here to defend themselves?

  204. We discuss what they’ve openly done and written, right? Done on tv, been quoted in the press, blogged on a board.

    What have you seen Cassandra write or do that warrants it?

    Ah, forget it.

  205. Rescue, dignified wouldn’t be allowing that website to stay up as long as it was. That was under her control the entire time.

    I’m here to tell you, I wouldn’t put it past one member of the “cat” club to do something like setting Drew up. Not saying it’s Cassandra, I don’t believe it is for one minute, but it could be any of the followers.

    I’m sorry, she let that crap go on far to long, and allowed Drew Buster Bats at fundraisers, she allowed pinata’s with Drew picture on them at candlelight vigils etc.

    It’s just my opinion.

  206. This should have read: This is NOT going to slam dunk nailing her BIL for the murder of her sister.

  207. I didn’t ever say she was….I simply made a comment that a typing style was similar to her’s.

    I don’t think it is anyone from that camp at all.

  208. So there must be a secret place that people that have had pm conversations with Drew can go to, to meet each other.

    Just goes to show it’s three people that know each other, and was a set-up, as far as I’m concerned.

  209. From ashley’s comments section…
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Why do you have Canada ads on your screen? Is that you theif/sosoa/John Vitale/dandeweed?

    July 2, 2008 8:49 PM
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Can someone explain the names listed in this post?

  210. I believe there was also a poster from New Zealand also, but I don’t think I have seen her around.

  211. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 9:05 pm

    I believe there was also a poster from New Zealand also, but I don’t think I have seen her around.
    —————————————————–
    TY! So, Ashley isn’t from Canada? I am lost.

  212. Oh I don’t know about Ashley, or where she is from.

    I just know that someone asked what certain nics meant. I said they belong to a gal from Canada, but I know she isn’t Ashley.

  213. I truly believe the ISP know about her blog, and have no interest in it. If they did, she would have been contacted by now by someone.

    I believe Kim was called in pretty quickly after it came out about her, right?

  214. Ashley said…
    Hey Joel ( because I know you come here ) , At least Drew for once is telling the truth and that is we never met , we never talked on the phone , just instant messages SO why would your client tell me he loves me – that him & his kids need me in their lives -ask me to move to Lexington Kentucky ( because thats where he thinks he is going to move to but L.E & the state will throw a curve ball in that – maybe if he is firm on moving there they can transfer him to a prison down there ) – go on live t.v to discuss how serious these 2 cases are and grab his ears like they were on fire to signal his love to me , etc ,etc ,etc . You have to be one of the dumbest people I have seen and the state is going to prove that right along with proving your client is a murderer , just be glad that stupidity is not a crime otherwise you & Drew would be cell mates …

  215. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 9:16 pm

    I truly believe the ISP know about her blog, and have no interest in it. If they did, she would have been contacted by now by someone.

    I believe Kim was called in pretty quickly after it came out about her, right?
    ———————————————————–
    Nope, LE knew about Kim in early March. I wonder if they called her, she lied and then they are going back later. Kim told the press that she knew Drew for a couple of weeks and that wasn’t the truth. No matter what, Ashley needs to tell the truth. JMO!

  216. excuse me, but 1 of my children needs soap in his mouth.. I aploigize , as I was cleaning he decided he would incriminate my name…Like I dont get that enough.. Really, I apoligize to WP, and to all reading..

    Sher

  217. Hey it is the Ashley show then it will be the Barbie show, then it will be the Linda show. Got to love it and it is all free!!!!!!!!!!!

  218. I just don’t understand why she has all the time to blog, but no time to go to the authorities.

    We get her point, she has proven him to be slimy.

    The DA office’s follow these boards also, and I think if they thought any of this could be brought before a GJ, or even a trial they would be in contact with her also.

    So a few dozen people read her blog, I wonder how many are from the area, and could possibly be jury member’s, not many I’m betting. So what’s the point?

  219. sher69 // July 2, 2008 at 9:22 pm

    excuse me, but 1 of my children needs soap in his mouth.. I aploigize , as I was cleaning he decided he would incriminate my name…Like I dont get that enough.. Really, I apoligize to WP, and to all reading..

    Sher
    **********************

    Hahahahahahahaha!!!!

  220. You have to be one of the dumbest people I have seen and the state is going to prove that right along with proving your client is a murderer , just be glad that stupidity is not a crime otherwise you & Drew would be cell mates …
    ++++++++++++++++++
    Ashley, I know you read here. This statement is priceless, LOL.

  221. Anonymous said…
    Ashley, you say that you are from S. Illinois but the time stamp on your IM’s with Drew are an hour difference….Eastern Standard Time…he is Central. That can’t be possible. You mention Kentucky, part of that state is in a different time zone. Lexington being one of them. That is a weird coincidence that one of our posters from FSP (Seppy) was from the same place. Things that make you go hmmm.

    July 2, 2008 9:29 PM
    ———————————————————–

    I hate it when that happens 😉

  222. Seppy used to post here months ago. Haven’t seen her on in forever, at least not as Seppy anyway. Wonder where, or if she posts now. Hey Seppy, wherever you are. 😀

  223. rescueapet // July 2, 2008 at 8:35 pm

    I agree… Cass should not be brought int0 this.
    Just my opinion….

    I keep meaning to type something about this but too tuckered out right now. Will do in the next day or so… but someone asked about “Is this the first case you have followed?” It is not for me, and I do want to share. For now I will just say that I was very curious about the Natalee Holloway case, followed it for a while on various boards, and what I learned over time was just……. unreal.

    TY lttbf – for the canadian explanation.

  224. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 9:42 pm

    Sher, did your child pee on your face while you were washing his/her mouth out with soap? I’m not understanding what went on back there.
    ——————————————————-
    There is no understanding that comment and it’s too close to the comment the other day. Barf

  225. Ducky, I don’t remember the one you are referring to, but I think the gist of what you are saying is “let it lie?” That’s cool. 😀

  226. excuse me?
    I’m not following you.. My son who is a teenager thought it would be hilarious to say a nasty ting, as I know it is not… I apoligized ,and hope that he will be excused for this.. Pranks is all, and he is aware of the consequences now.

  227. they are referring to her yahoo time stamp which btw means NOTHING if she purposefully or even accidentally didn’t set her time zone correctly regardless if she’s in Illinois if she had it set for EST..it will show that time

    some people are so desperate to find out who she is….or isn’t that they’re gonna pick apart everything

    and as far as LE being interested or not…how do any of us know they haven’t already talked to her but she can’t confirm it because they asked her not to???

    that is VERY possible

  228. Anonymous said…
    A great mom is a dad. Once you bitches spit the kid out you really just take up space. I mean what can you teach the kids? How to make less money doing the same job? How to cry and get all emotional? How to make cookies? Give me a break… “great moms” are a dime a dozen…

    July 2, 2008 9:47 PM

    Oh Chuckles is back! She is one mixed up girl.

  229. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 9:55 pm

    Ducky, I don’t remember the one you are referring to, but I think the gist of what you are saying is “let it lie?” That’s cool.
    ———————————————————
    Yeppers. We are cool. Letting it lie. Heard it before, I guess we will hear it again 😉

  230. dearheart88 // July 2, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    they are referring to her yahoo time stamp which btw means NOTHING if she purposefully or even accidentally didn’t set her time zone correctly regardless if she’s in Illinois if she had it set for EST..it will show that time

    some people are so desperate to find out who she is….or isn’t that they’re gonna pick apart everything

    and as far as LE being interested or not…how do any of us know they haven’t already talked to her but she can’t confirm it because they asked her not to???

    that is VERY possible
    ———————————————————–
    No, that is NOT what I was referring to. Please don’t put words in my mouth. Thanks. Ashley is in the Eastern Time Zone. Why would I tell anyone how I figured that one out? hehe

  231. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 10:01 pm

    dearheart88 // July 2, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    Snipped post for space….
    ———————————————————–
    No, that is NOT what I was referring to. Please don’t put words in my mouth. Thanks. Ashley is in the Eastern Time Zone. Why would I tell anyone how I figured that one out? hehe

    ——————————–

    I totally agree with Ducky, 2 different time zones… and I won’t spill the beans on it either. Heck, I spotted that immediately!

  232. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    I’m not a computer person, and I can’t spot it, but thank God for those that can.
    —————————————————-
    This would be the time that I wished that we had PM’s or email. LOL I guess that little white pill is working for me. 😉

  233. Dang pass those things over, please….lol.

    But it’s cool, glad to know someone knows how to find that stuff out.

  234. Anonymous said…
    All the cryptic talking is because,
    Snow White and her 7 Dwarfs, tricky trin, heffer hedunit, wild wayne, jarhead january, mixed up mouser, jealous julieinca and slutty smooch think they are really really sneaky.

    July 2, 2008 10:15 PM

  235. k well I wasn’t referring to what YOU posted Ducky

    I’m saying that is a possibility and why does it matter if she’s in a different time zone…look…she so far refuses to tell anyone who she is…that being the case so what if she’s lying about her location…bottom line is…if the suspect wasn’t trolling around the internet trying to “pick up babes” none of this would be getting discussed and now that “Ashley” has exposed there are at least 2 other females he’s been chatting it up with I’m more convinced than ever that she sought him out to expose him

    but expose him as what? we all pretty much already knew what a POS he is if this is just to show that then what a waste of time IMO…now if she got a confession from him…or if he even talked about that day and the time line then I’m all ears

    I wouldn’t be surprised at all if Ashley is really Joe Hosey or maybe even Matt Phelps

    as far as she being someone like JIC very doubtful…she couldn’t keep her mouth shut long enough!

  236. Something is extremely strange over there right now.

    Someone posted a comment I made days ago, but posted it as if they wrote it.

    (shaking head)

  237. dearheart88 // July 2, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    ___

    I don’t know… but it seems to me that “Ashley” is not stupid. I think she talked to the authorities long before today. I happen to believe her. Regardlesss of what anyone thinks, I don’t think she is doing this without having had some “advice”. Before today that is.

    Carry on Ashley…..

  238. It’s getting sicker by the moment over there. Someone is posting other people’s posts from days ago.

    Why, just to stir the pot?

  239. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 10:14 pm

    letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    I’m not a computer person, and I can’t spot it, but thank God for those that can.
    —————————————————-
    This would be the time that I wished that we had PM’s or email. LOL I guess that little white pill is working for me.
    _____________________________
    I’m not sure what you’re seeing.

    The time stamps are the same. Picture #1 the first comment by ashley at 2:19:23 and her next one at 2:20:11 followed by Drew’s at 2:20:53.

    So … where is the hour difference.

    But lol … took me forever to get my time zone right at Lavanda’s. 🙂

  240. dearheart88 // July 2, 2008 at 10:23 pm
    ~~~~~~~~~~

    LOL… Again all of this talk of who is who?
    Who cares? Just another deflection? I don’t mean that about you Dearheart…. but those that are trying so hard to deflect – as to time, etc… they seem to really want to change the subject from the content to the date. Unless there is some ohther explanation… I can see no importance. Other than “They” makin y’all crazy looking for something that isn’t there.

    deflect, spin, deflect… yadda yadda bada bing….

  241. Does it matter where she is from or what time her computer is set at?

    Not really.

    What matters is what Drew said in those posts, and when he said it.

    IMO

  242. Let, it is getting really bad. Someone is gonna fall off the ride and get real hurt if they don’t slow it down.

    I would be very unhappy if I were BigM. I am still reading the slop from earlier. I haven’t even gotten to current comments.

    I don’t understand the ignorance in posting personal information. It is just totally out of line.

  243. HarleyJoey –

    I think people are looking for something, because she hasn’t posted anything that we don’t already know.

    He didn’t confess or anything like that, so basically its just her conversation with Drew being sleazy.

    And showing her to be a liar. With most people when you give your word, you should keep it, regardless. The only exception for me personally for me would be if he had confessed, other than that, she is a rat!!!!

  244. Exactly noway…. someone is trying to get everyone to see something that does not exist.

    (oh and so sorry for the typo)

  245. So it’s ok for posters to post other people’s personal information on that blog, but people cant try to figure out who this liar is?

    Makes no sense. If she has nothing to hide, just come out with it.

    And as I said earlier today, if the ISP and or the DA know about her, and are giving her their blessing, hoping to get something out of it, they would certainly coach her on the proper way to act.

  246. Harleyjoey, don’t worry about the typos. I don’t think anyone should feel the need to apologize for those … there’s not one person here who hasn’t done it … and that includes me. 🙂

  247. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:17 pm

    Dang pass those things over, please….lol.

    But it’s cool, glad to know someone knows how to find that stuff out.
    ——————————————————-
    hehe. I wish that I could help.

    Noway-NO, it is NOT the time zone. It’s a IM that gave it away. Not a time stamp.

    I’m not going to blow her cover-I want all the IM’s out. I wish that she would have gone to LE like she said. Oh well. I hope that she knows what she is doing. But, according to them, we are all old and we won’t remember this conversation in the morning. LOL

  248. Noway-I PROMISE you that she made a big boo-boo. Damn it for not having PM’s or email.

    Harleyjoey-I swear that it is not a hoax or BS-this duck don’t fly that way! lol

  249. Noway-I think/know that she is a previous poster that lives in the Eastern Time Zone. Beyond that, I do not know.

  250. Well first of all, she told Drew she wouldnt talk about this etc, and what has she done, gone and made a blog about it.

    She said she was going to the le today, but didn’t, claimed she was too busy. But she has time to sit and blog, guess what Police Stations are open 24/7 and if she really had something, you know damn well they would bring in Detectives etc at any hour to talk to her.

    Just stuff like that.

  251. I disagree LTTBF…

    I still say… HE engaged with her…. period

    HE trusted her. period

    HE said what he said. Period

    I just do not see the point of trying to drag “Ashley ” through the mud. What will that do?

    As far as I am concerned, she did a good thing.

    I choose to believe that she had guidance before she exposed the dumb cop.

    That of course is my own opinion.

    I would suggest that others Refrain from making comments that are unsubstansiated.

    My opinions only

  252. And someone else told me they “know” she lives in the midwest.

    I’ll wait for the “film at 11” … 😉

  253. Harley, nothing he did was illegal, so what’s the point?

    If she had guidance, God help them. DA’s offices, and LE are ususally much more professional then she is acting.

    Just my opinion.

  254. Let, maybe she’s lying to US about what she did today.

    And yes, she told Drew nobody would ever know he talked to her … but seriously … maybe she didn’t know about Bachelorette #2 and #3 then … will be interesting to see who “she” is. 😀

  255. So what’s the big deal about what gave it away? Why not ‘spill the beans’?

    If she uses a proxy … would that make a difference?

  256. Did she ever answer how she randomly started speaking to him?

    I know he made a mention of trying internet dating, but met her first.

    How did they *just* meet?

  257. Sher, this is way late, but I get it now!!! You son typed that while you were from the computer cleaning. Duh. Sorry, just couldn’t get what you were saying. 😀

  258. Let, she says he sent her a PM and she responded. When she responded, he said he had not sent the PM that started it all.

    And the chatting began … and true love blossomed.

  259. cfs, it took me awhile also to figure it out. I had to reread her post a few times…..must be these blue and pink pills that are doing it to me 😉

  260. Well, Let, he did have the 959 for everything else.

    I’m sure the 69 is his grandma’s birthday … or someone’s!

  261. Sher….lol

    Who has the *reds*?

    Ducky has the *whites.*

    Noway, they don’t give her anything, so we have to share, she really needs to find a better *home.*

    😉 lol

  262. What do you think, far fetched?

    Anonymous said…
    Well, I guess I’m an armchair detective as well. I find this all very interesting and I’d like to give me 2 cents worth in “guessing” who “Ashley” is. I believe it may be the person that created Ric Mims website and got called in by LE for whatever the issue was. I feel that because the way Ashley stated that “she” designed web sites for other people and she will prove she’s not a scorned “woman.” Just my 2 cents. Can’t wait to see Drew arrested.

    July 2, 2008 10:44 PM

  263. Noway….lol.

    I guess I’m just misunderstanding. They would have had to be in the same blog, message board etc in order for him to get her pm, correct?

    Has she mentioned where that place is?

  264. That’s funny Sher. I remember there was a poster at Kimmers who’s kid did that to her now and again. Kids! They are little devils sometimes.

  265. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 10:50 pm

    I have to agree with “Ashley on this”… He clearly talks about so many things.

    What are those pesky questions – Motive, opportunity, and there is one more – lol i forget.

    DP had the motive for 2 murders. Opportunity for 2 murders…….

    hmmmmm

  266. I have the *blues.* Not sure what they are for, they just hand them to me in a little white paper cup and tell me to swallow them….lol.

  267. Anonymous said…
    And this, IMO, is why you should have been given an answer from the get-go.

    It’s not rocket science FSP! Just DO THE RIGHT THING.

    July 2, 2008 10:30 PM
    _________________
    Anonymous said it today on Ashley’s page … I said it a few days ago here.

    Someone is so hard up for posts they’re using used posts.

  268. Let, sorry … she called it a PM but it was really an IM … she calls them PMs because to her, that’s what they are (personal? private? message).

  269. Yes, he is a devil!! Im really sorry for this, but he did get reprimanded for it… If I was going to post this, it would be not say that!! LOL!!

    Did anyone just stop and say WTF?
    Cause I know I looked after cleaning my basement, and thought did I do a half post or something? O MY!! LOL!!!
    Ill get that stinker back!!

  270. noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 10:59 pm

    Well, Let, he did have the 959 for everything else.

    I’m sure the 69 is his grandma’s birthday … or someone’s!

    +++++++++++++++++

    Love it!!! LOLOLOL!! You all are posting too fast! I’m having problems catching up, but I’ll be there shortly, I hope.

  271. Im telling you right now, over there they are stealing and posting crap that may incriminate all of us… I just dont want others to be ticked off at good posters who are innocent…

    WOW is it a wild wild circus, and I believe we should all not pay attention to BS…

  272. OT:

    I really need new appetizer and dip recipes. I’m sick of making BLT dip for everyone.

    I’m frying up the bacon now, and it’s getting old doing this…..lol.

  273. It is really pitiful.

    I wonder how long she will let this go on? She can easily set it up so that comments are disabled and still complete her mission. Whatever that is? I am with you let, this is not anything we didn’t already know. He’s a skirt chaser. Skirt chasing is not illegal. Well not in this country.

  274. The posts they have made as me have only made my look like a psycho, so if anyone wants to implicate me in anything I’ll plead insanity.

    🙂

  275. The funny thing is that post may have been one of the 100s deleted that night … but maybe Ashley is getting paid per post. 😉 No matter what is said.

  276. I dont do appetizer dips, sorry!
    Crab dip sounds good though… My friend made some, and it was delish!!
    ~~~~~~
    INGREDIENTS
    1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese, softened
    1 (8 ounce) jar cocktail sauce
    3/4 pound imitation crabmeat

    READ REVIEWS (19)

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    DIRECTIONS
    In a medium bowl, blend the cream cheese and cocktail sauce. Cut the imitation crabmeat into small pieces and combine it with the mixture. Refrigerate 3 hours before serving.

  277. Let here is one:

    1 vehicle
    $15 dollars
    1 Whole foods store for hummus
    1 Bowl from home, throw it in

    😉

  278. Does Ashley ever respond to anyone who posts with a name? All her responses seem to be to Anonymous at x time. 😀

    Gonna have to change my MO.

  279. Sher, I seemed to have missed what your son did. 🙂

    Facs, I’ll have to read more carefully over there and see if I can recognize your psychoticness.

    😀

  280. Thanks All –

    I will do all thise suggestions.

    By the way the Whole Foods on Roosevelt in the city has a new beet dip/spread, sounds wierd, but it’s so good.

  281. facsmiley // July 2, 2008 at 11:17 pm

    The posts they have made as me have only made my look like a psycho, so if anyone wants to implicate me in anything I’ll plead insanity.
    +++++++++++++++++++
    LOLOLOL! Dang, they would have to pick those! But hey, we’ll vouch for you if you’ll vouch for us. 😀

  282. Noway – there was one in particular where they took a post that I’d made here and then tacked the words ‘you a lying whore’ on the end. So it seemed as if I was saying that to Ashley.

    Or…maybe they meant to address me? Oh well, I can’t say I’ve never lied and sometimes my BF calls me a whore, but that’s during our private moments and when he says it, it’s in a good way. 😉

  283. Sher, I seemed to have missed what your son did.
    ~~~~~~~
    Oh he posted for me here, while I was cleaning the basement.. LOL!!!
    Maybe it broke the tension of the whole Ashley thing? IDK!!

    I came back and looked, and was like wth?

  284. Right, facs, I saw your response. So I went back and checked mine that had been posted twice in a row (!) but it was just as I’d posted here, as well as I can remember. 😉

    Night, Harley.

  285. Oh my gosh-My posts are not my posts. WTH happened?
    ~~~~~~~
    They are definitley screwing arond over there, and I dont think anyone should pay attention, or get peeved @ anyone; they will cause a lot of HAVOC !!!

  286. cfs7360 // July 2, 2008 at 11:26 pm

    facsmiley // July 2, 2008 at 11:17 pm

    The posts they have made as me have only made my look like a psycho, so if anyone wants to implicate me in anything I’ll plead insanity.
    +++++++++++++++++++
    LOLOLOL! Dang, they would have to pick those! But hey, we’ll vouch for you if you’ll vouch for us.
    ———————————————————–
    We might need more than reds, blues, pinks, whites and the vouching. Someone, has WAY too much time on their hands.

    Noway-did you figure it out yet? Carp, I am sorry!

  287. I’m just going to try to keep a sense of humor when I read over there, otherwise it’s too confusing.

  288. I cant imagine anyone holding everyones post….Odd to say the least!!!

    But at least I’m not alone.

  289. letthetruthbefree // July 2, 2008 at 11:13 pm

    OT:

    I really need new appetizer and dip recipes. I’m sick of making BLT dip for everyone.

    I’m frying up the bacon now, and it’s getting old doing this…..lol.

    +++++++++++++++++++++
    Let, we do quite a bit of entertaining, so I have some really great recipes I’ll be glad to share with you, but they’re all pretty easy “scratch” recipes if you don’t mind that kind. Want me to send some to the email addres you posted upthread? And how soon do you need them, if you want them, lol?

  290. Figure out why you think she is not in Illinois?

    No … stopped reading … but I believe she is where she says she is. Like I said … my posts at Lavanda’s were all over the place because I can’t follow simple instructions. 😉

    Maybe if you tell me what you saw, I’ll agree that you are right …

    I hope Joel takes her up on her offer and posts her picture.

  291. sher69 // July 2, 2008 at 11:29 pm

    Oh my gosh-My posts are not my posts. WTH happened?
    ~~~~~~~
    They are definitley screwing arond over there, and I dont think anyone should pay attention, or get peeved @ anyone; they will cause a lot of HAVOC !!!
    ——————————————————–
    Reds are needed. lol

    Why is someone saving all our posts? I don’t get it. Too much time on their hands. Geesh!

  292. I would love them, and I don’t need them in any amount of time, whenever you get a second.

    Thank you.

    I love entertaining, but it seems like we get in a rut and do the same things as far as appetizers etc, and you know how that goes, it gets so old.

    Some of our friends though are the problem, they dont like new, but there is a good group of us that do…..;)

  293. Hint: not a time stamp but a conversation.

    I want to tell but I made a promise. Hang on, I will make a call.

  294. Thats one reason I don’t think the ISP or DA’s is involved in Ashley’s site. If they saw people posting other peoples post etc, they would ask her to put an end to it.

  295. wow guys and gals , I missed alot here, trying to understand everyones talking in btwns lol.. kinda hard to disiffer sorry for the misspellings lol tired tonight… so ashley is not ashley is what Iam getting and joel is saying nope didnt happen as to drew talking with this chic… or something like that a………………..

    and she is putting out things they are discussing am i getting this right????

    me thinks it is a setup, or someone yanking our chains…
    as for the TIME THINGY , I have PUTER SET UP FOR EASTERN TIME WHEN IAM ON WEST COAST , as well as MY IM”S to but am on west coast ….. ya can do that , ya know have 2different time zones on PUTER …… it is easy to do….

    as for what joel said before that , person would get into trouble cause of taping phonecalls . NOT SO cause of 3different states and it goes by the federal laws on taping ..,.. so that would be hard to prosicute sorry about typo….. that is what I found when I looked it up… so the idiot should go back to school and relearn things…..

  296. Ducky,
    I don’t think I care enough to go and read that stuff. If you promised, keep quiet.

    Maybe I’ll have the desire to read through tomorrow.

    Nah. I won’t.

  297. Let, we all share our recipes from different get togethers, so that makes it fun. Understand about some being not being open to trying new things when the old ones are SO good, lol. Will try to get you some off tomorrow. My mother is coming for an overnight stay tomorrow through Friday, and I’m not sure how much time I’ll have for the next couple of days.

    You guys, I’m not going back to Ashley’s anymore to read the posts. If they get posted here, that’s one thing, and I actually enjoyed one that Ashley posted herself tonight that someone brought over…Iknoweverything was it?? If someone says anything about me or what I’ve posted, I hoestly do not care, and I don’t want to hear about it, okay? It’s just a waste of time for me, and it’s silly of whomever is posting our “used” posts over there anyway, lol. Ridiculous and immature, IMO. But if they’re having a grand old time taking up space on Ashley’s blog and she doesn’t care, so be it. 😀

  298. whoever this person is I don’t think they found him by accident

    I think it was someone who could get access to his screen names if they didn’ t have them already

    who hates Drew? who has little if nothing to do with him?

    could it possibly be a neighbor…a former colleague…maybe even his own son Eric???

    or a reporter?

    or really a woman who he ticked off?

    one thing I find very telling is her response that she will prove once and for all she’s “not a scorned female”

    maybe that’s because she’s really a he?

    time will tell…for the time being I’m getting a kick out of their correspondence and am a little shocked by all the negative BS over on her blog…she’s got a heck of a backbone though..I will give “her” that

  299. Nothing in this case is “normal” and maybe that is why so many people have a hard time believing that Ashley did just happen upon Drew (or him upon her) … that she is a she … that she lives in southern Illinois … that she is not a scorned female.

    We’re so jaded that none of us can believe the truth when we hear it.

    If this is the truth.

    Oh thank goodness GJ tomorrow … maybe?

  300. Nothing in this case is “normal” and maybe that is why so many people have a hard time believing that Ashley did just happen upon Drew (or him upon her) … that she is a she … that she lives in southern Illinois … that she is not a scorned female.

    We’re so jaded that none of us can believe the truth when we hear it.

    If this is the truth. 😉

    Oh thank goodness GJ tomorrow … maybe?

  301. I’m gonna have to try and sneak online during the party to see if anything is posted about the GJ.

  302. Okay. Don’t know what is up with the double-posts. Once I see … didn’t think it went and added the 😉 … but this time … no changes.

    Definitely time for sleep. You know how the nursing home staff can be … it’s lights out time!

  303. I dont know how many of you are local.

    As you all know we had an Officer killed last night in the line of duty. On nbc5.com they have the story about it.

    There is a video, and it shows fellow officers at the hospital, saluting Officer Francis as he was taken by ambulance to the Cook County Morgue.

    Good lord, that made me cry, hard!!!!

  304. A friend of a friend of a friend (who knows Drew) told me that since Ashley gave out his screen name, there are a fortune of people, mainly females, who have requested him as a friend in the IM world and all of whom have been for the most part very cordial.

    As they say, things happen for a reason and there’s someone for everyone. Who knows maybe Ashley did him a favor and helped him find a companion.

  305. duckyone // July 2, 2008 at 7:13 pm

    noway406 // July 2, 2008 at 7:10 pm

    I get no pills and no popcorn. WTF? I’m blowing this joint first chance I get!
    ——————————————————-
    I’ll break you out! This duck can fly, the more pills I have, the faster my wings flap. I can’t chew popcorn, my dentures will break. Can they put it in the blender for me?
    ___________

    AFLAC!

  306. For those that say they “know” Ashley is in an eastern time zone … how do you know?

    The IM times are the same … and you said it was in a message, not the date/time stamp.

    The only reference to time that I saw (for those that said they knew from the beginning) is that Drew said he would be on at 11 pm that night to chat if she was available. Never saw the actual conversation from April 16 so can’t say what time he was on …

    Don’t make me read all that stuff again.

    Please!

    😀

  307. Good morning.

    Wish I could help you there Noway, but I don’t have a clue what any of that means. Not that computer savy when it comes to time stamps in pm’s, etc. Not that I care about that anyway.

    I really don’t follow the Ashley stuff, but I went over there this morning, and I am wondering who and why posts from here are winding up over there, as someone mentioned here last evening. Even found one of mine, or at least one. Too much stuff to sift through.

    Anyway, today is GJ day, so hoping Gatehouse has info early.

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